<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913433571404676501</id><updated>2012-02-16T02:43:52.175-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Sea Change Counselling</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10526712163028330409</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WnL-NYB3ua8/TUobbBLlzTI/AAAAAAAAAAY/8hJJWib72lg/s220/SeaChangelogo%2Bcopy.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913433571404676501.post-5663295539882859021</id><published>2011-10-21T15:08:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-21T15:08:59.213-07:00</updated><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_SSu3tzhrbQ/TqHtQ1dXajI/AAAAAAAAABU/_Y-857Yr-gg/s1600/life+stress+solutions+final+one.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="640" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_SSu3tzhrbQ/TqHtQ1dXajI/AAAAAAAAABU/_Y-857Yr-gg/s640/life+stress+solutions+final+one.jpg" width="494" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8913433571404676501-5663295539882859021?l=seachangecounselling.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/feeds/5663295539882859021/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/10/blog-post.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/5663295539882859021'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/5663295539882859021'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/10/blog-post.html' title=''/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10526712163028330409</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WnL-NYB3ua8/TUobbBLlzTI/AAAAAAAAAAY/8hJJWib72lg/s220/SeaChangelogo%2Bcopy.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-_SSu3tzhrbQ/TqHtQ1dXajI/AAAAAAAAABU/_Y-857Yr-gg/s72-c/life+stress+solutions+final+one.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913433571404676501.post-6631919725773425709</id><published>2011-08-25T17:48:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-25T21:04:07.358-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Divorce and Separation Seminar</title><content type='html'>Divorce and Separation are life transitions that many people will be emotionally unprepared for.&lt;br /&gt;Emotions following or during divorce and separation can be a roller-coaster. Change is intrinsically stressful. Divorce and separation bring along many changes. There are ways that can help you through this transition. Below are details of a Seminar in Kelowna that I will be co-hosting, Come along and hopefully you will gain some tools to help you through this transition in your life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Divorce &amp;amp; Separation - What You Need to Know&lt;br /&gt;Host:Laurie Baird, Twyla Kendall, Heidi Taylor &amp;amp; Melody Brewer&lt;br /&gt;Phone:250-862-1806&lt;br /&gt;When:Tuesday, October 4 from 7:00 PM&lt;br /&gt;to 9:00 PM&lt;br /&gt;Where: Kelowna Elks' Hall&lt;br /&gt;#250 2040 Springfield Rd Kelowna, BC&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8913433571404676501-6631919725773425709?l=seachangecounselling.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/feeds/6631919725773425709/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/08/divorce-and-separation-seminar.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/6631919725773425709'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/6631919725773425709'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/08/divorce-and-separation-seminar.html' title='Divorce and Separation Seminar'/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10526712163028330409</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WnL-NYB3ua8/TUobbBLlzTI/AAAAAAAAAAY/8hJJWib72lg/s220/SeaChangelogo%2Bcopy.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913433571404676501.post-2318260227742817160</id><published>2011-07-19T10:35:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-07-19T10:35:56.325-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Life Transitions</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;Life presents us with many different changes: some we welcome, some are inconvenient, some are tragic and cause great pain.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;Change can be very challenging emotionally and change can trigger anxiety, stress, depression. You may feel confused and worried about the future.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;Types of life transitions:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;Divorce&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;End of a relationship&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Bereavement&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Relocating/ Moving&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Long term illness&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Redundancy / Lay off&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Career change&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Retirement&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Becoming an empty nester&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Caring for a loved one&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;Talking to a therapist can help you to find ways of coping with these changes, look at them with a new perspective, work through your feelings and emotions surrounding these changes in your life.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;" /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8913433571404676501-2318260227742817160?l=seachangecounselling.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/feeds/2318260227742817160/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/07/life-transitions.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/2318260227742817160'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/2318260227742817160'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/07/life-transitions.html' title='Life Transitions'/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10526712163028330409</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WnL-NYB3ua8/TUobbBLlzTI/AAAAAAAAAAY/8hJJWib72lg/s220/SeaChangelogo%2Bcopy.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913433571404676501.post-7126331569553263863</id><published>2011-07-19T10:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-07-19T10:31:56.846-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Newcomers to Canada Workshop</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="style6" style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;Have you been living in Canada 2 years or less ?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Are you finding it difficult to settle ?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Do you constantly find yourself thinking about home?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Are you confused about whether to stay or return to your country of origin ?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;Even when the experience of moving to a new country is a positive one it can bring with it many challenges, psychological, Emotional, and Relational.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;img align="right" alt="workshops Kelowna" src="http://www.seachangecounselling.com/assets/workshop.jpg" /&gt;How do these relate to you?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;Homesick&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Isolated&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Feeling disconnected&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Frustration&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Loss&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Anxious&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;This workshop will equip you with a tool box of coping skills that will help you through&lt;br /&gt;the adjustment of living in Canada&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;For more information or to book your place for the workshop please contact Melody @ 250-869-6806&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8913433571404676501-7126331569553263863?l=seachangecounselling.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/feeds/7126331569553263863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/07/newcomers-to-canada-workshop.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/7126331569553263863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/7126331569553263863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/07/newcomers-to-canada-workshop.html' title='Newcomers to Canada Workshop'/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10526712163028330409</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WnL-NYB3ua8/TUobbBLlzTI/AAAAAAAAAAY/8hJJWib72lg/s220/SeaChangelogo%2Bcopy.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913433571404676501.post-5016050163580765997</id><published>2011-02-02T19:01:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2011-02-02T19:01:21.162-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Adjusting to your new life in Canada can be challenging.</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Cultural and Immigration Adjustment&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;Relocating to a new country, even when the move was a positive one, can bring with it many expected and unexpected emotions, personal, and family challenges, the different cultural values, new language, and more.&amp;nbsp; Even if you are from an English speaking country, you may have found that there are many subtle differences that you were not expecting which can increase your feeling of being disconnected.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;Adapting to your new surroundings can cause you to feel&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;li&gt;Lonely&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Isolated&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Homesick&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Disconnected&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Confused&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Guilt surrounding not being there for your family and friends in your country of origin&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Constantly thinking about home&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Depressed&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Angry&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Frustrated&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;You may feel that it is difficult to talk to people who are close to you about these feelings.&lt;br /&gt;Maybe the rest of your family has settled well, and you can’t understand why you are finding it so difficult. Counselling and talking to a therapist can help you clarify these confused feelings, work through your emotions, find out what triggers them and find new coping strategies to help you to integrate in to you new life in Canada.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;hr style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;" /&gt;&lt;div style="color: #333333; font-family: arial; font-size: 11px; line-height: 24px;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8913433571404676501-5016050163580765997?l=seachangecounselling.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/feeds/5016050163580765997/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/02/adjusting-to-your-new-life-in-canada.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/5016050163580765997'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/5016050163580765997'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2011/02/adjusting-to-your-new-life-in-canada.html' title='Adjusting to your new life in Canada can be challenging.'/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10526712163028330409</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WnL-NYB3ua8/TUobbBLlzTI/AAAAAAAAAAY/8hJJWib72lg/s220/SeaChangelogo%2Bcopy.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8913433571404676501.post-6142265659984900626</id><published>2010-11-03T16:52:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2010-11-03T16:54:31.676-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Welcome</title><content type='html'>Welcome to the Sea Change Counselling blog. Check back often for new topics, ideas and discussion.&lt;br /&gt;See my website at &lt;a href="http://www.seachangecounselling.com/"&gt;http://www.seachangecounselling.com/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Melody&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8913433571404676501-6142265659984900626?l=seachangecounselling.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/feeds/6142265659984900626/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2010/11/welcome.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/6142265659984900626'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8913433571404676501/posts/default/6142265659984900626'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://seachangecounselling.blogspot.com/2010/11/welcome.html' title='Welcome'/><author><name>Melody</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10526712163028330409</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_WnL-NYB3ua8/TUobbBLlzTI/AAAAAAAAAAY/8hJJWib72lg/s220/SeaChangelogo%2Bcopy.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
